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I'm almost 50 and have just realized that my people pleasing has destroyed every relationship in my life. It has the complete opposite affect on the people you are trying to please as well as the intent behind the act of people pleasing. I have sought therapy in my life for the first time and it's working. I'm not blaming...[ read more ]

Where to begin. I have been avoiding counseling for my entire life. I have been in 3 serious relationships and a couple of minor ones :)all with therapists e. Maybe I was looking for help but didn't know how to get it. I finally married the last one :). Still I avoided therapy I went once 7 years ago for...[ read more ]

A Man's guide to marriage counseling that I didn't think I needed (or wanted) Questions and feelings I had: How long do I have to go ? How does this psychologist know how to solve our problems ? How much is this going to cost ? Do they take insurance ? Why can't we just figure it out ? I...[ read more ]

It took me 2 years to understand why I was there. I hated going every time but I felt progress in my life and in my marriage. Then another to get it. One session I got punched in the brain. ( not literally :) 4 weeks later I think my wife got punched in the brain as well. End of...[ read more ]