A Man's guide to marriage counseling that I didn't think I needed (or wanted)

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It took me 2 years to understand why I was there. I hated going every time but I felt progress in my life and in my marriage. Then another to get it. One session I got punched in the brain. ( not literally :) 4 weeks later I think my wife got punched in the brain as well. End of the day I wanted it to work. I was willing to go through hell to get there. I said when I got married: Through the good, bad and horrible. I meant it. If you both want it you will win in the end. It can be really fucking hard, but I believe to my core it will save my marriage and personal happiness. It's a choice, choose one way or another. I'm not sure what happened to me but I just got my friend and wife back in my life. It's been worth it all. Much more work ahead, but little successes can mean everything.